23 January 2009

Being an Older Parent

Posted by BaBa under: Observations .

I like being an older parent and this is good since I cannot change where am I am life or when Magoo came into to our family. Being an older parent has many benefits.

  • You are more thoughtful and reflective about how you parent.
  • You do not second guess yourself or your partner.
  • You support your partner’s deicisions.
  • You and your partner are a team.
  • You present unified guidelines for your child.
  • You see the consequences of the easy decision and try instead to make the right decision.
  • You move a little more slowly, but you don’t miss as many of the little important things in life.
  • You are even more aware of the wonder in how your child is changing and growing day by day.
  • You are thankful for each blessing each day.
  • You are tired at the end of the day, but it is a different tired than before.
  • You are in a state of shock and awe concerning the tasks of parenting, metoring and coaching your child day by day.
  • You wonder how you qualified for the job of parent, but are glad that you did.
  • You love this job and wonder what life was before you got the job.

3 Comments so far...

Cristy Says:

24 January 2009 at 8:00 am.

Amen! So true- couldn’t have said it better myself!

Nan Lee Chen Says:

24 January 2009 at 9:33 am.

All I know is you guys are fabulous parents and I wouldn’t say you are older, just well seasoned for the task since you have older children already! Trust me, by the 6th kid you feel pickled!

HomeDaddy Don Says:

29 January 2009 at 10:09 am.

Well stated. We are 50 & 58 with a 2 year old – being an older parent rocks!

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